How would you feel...

...if you could build unshakeable 

confidence using self awareness?

~ Join this LIVE & Recorded 5 - Day Workshop

So you can let go of playing it safe and pursue your dreams with ease!


I hear it all the time, friend. I meet a ton of smart, capable, and passionate sober women who are full of brilliant ideas and dreams that would change their LIVES, but they can't seem to get past the barriers keeping them stuck. They've either...


Attempted to make changes in the past only to be met with resistance and the inability to stick with it.



They aren't even aware of the potential they have inside.

Are You

Ready for Growth?

Imagine what your life will be like when you have a clear understanding of who you are AND what you are doing in the moment and WHY!

At the end of this workshop you will have clarity on your own character, feelings, motives, and desires. You will also understand how others view you and if that is in alignment with your self-image.


There are 3 Main Reasons Women Don't Achieve Their Goals In Sobriety.

Which one is getting in your way?

Reason #1

You are afraid. The fear of making a mistake, of being rejected or judged can be crippling. You feel like you want to get out of toxic relationships, pursue a career path or get healthy, but the fear of failure holds you back...So you stay put.

Reason #2

You don't have time. There is so much to do, people to take care of, places to go. You can't imagine having the space in your life where you get to pursue the dreams of your true self, take care of your physical health or build healthy relationships.

Reason #3

You lack self-esteem. The limiting beliefs that plague you daily make you feel you aren't good enough. You aren't capable or you aren't worthy. These negative thoughts prevent you from believing in yourself like others do and keep you stuck.



Your Guide

Hi, I'm Shelby. 

You’ve fought hard to get and stay sober and you don’t want to stop there! ❤️

You want the emotional sobriety you have heard about from other women. But sometimes it can be confusing, overwhelming and scary to know how to do “the work” that will get you there.

I have been there. 19 years ago I found myself in a heap of legal trouble that could have cost me my entire professional career, my family and my dignity, but all I knew how to do was lie and explain my way out of it.  After treatment, working the steps of recovery, building new relationships and lots of therapy I got sober too.

But after my first sober bottom at 4 years of sobriety, I knew there was more work to be done. I knew I had to find true serenity and move from fear to confidence.  As a licensed therapist and a sober woman I can share the ways I did that with my community of sober women like they were taught to me, with a few special twists!

This 5-Day LIVE workshop is the beginning of that transformation for you.

A Day-By-Day Understanding

What You'll Learn:

DAY ONE: What is self-awareness?

Monday, October 18th at 12:00pm Eastern/9 Pacific we will kick off this mini course by truly defining self-awareness. It is important to understand the things you can change and what you can’t about yourself and others.

DAY TWO: Internal Self-Awareness: Discovering More About Yourself

Tuesday, October 19th at 12:00pm Eastern/9 Pacific. Being willing to learn more about yourself takes a lot of courage. You have to look at yourself objectively. Self awareness is what you develop when you pay attention to your expressions of thought, emotions, and behavior.

DAY THREE: External Self-Awareness: Understanding Others

Wednesday, October 20th at 12:00pm Eastern/9 Pacific. We examine external self-awareness. In other words, do others see in us the same values, passions, aspirations, and behaviors that we see in ourselves? We will explore both the "why" and "why not". 

DAY FOUR: Barriers to Self-Awareness

Thursday, October 21st at 12:00pm Eastern/9 Pacific.  We cannot explore self-awareness without also understanding the barriers that could be holding us back. We will really dig deep during this session.

DAY FIVE: Tools for regular self-awareness

Friday, October 22nd at 12:00pm Eastern/9 Pacific. We will spend this time putting what was covered this week into real-life practice.  We will explore and break down the importance of sensation, thoughts, feelings, and understanding.

Mini Course Begins: 

October 18, 2021 at 12 Noon Eastern Time. 









Oh wait...did you think we were done? Not even close! Let's talk about the 3 FREE bonuses you get!


BONUS 1: FREE Video Training on Building Confidence with Fashion!

FREE S.M.A.R.T Goal Planning Worksheet

LIVE Bonus Days with Me...AFTER the workshop!


Join the Confidence through Self-Awareness 5 Day LIVE Workshop 

for only $27!

Click below to register and join other sober women who are building confidence through self-awareness….I promise it will be worth it!


Lingering questions? We've got you covered!